This is the fist time I have sat at my desk and posted in a long time! So much has been happening that even I have found it hard to keep up with myself so I have been posting while on the go! Today, is the first day of 7 days annual leave that I have from work, So I thought while sitting pondering over plans whilst enjoying my tomato soup and chamomile tea I would let you all know my plans! What has turned out to be a relaxing week is turning into a very busy week.
It’s coming up to the year anniversary of when me and casual first decided that we liked one another. If you follow my blog and have been keeping an eye on our progress/failure then you will know that it is now well and truly over. So! To celebrate(and keep myself busy) I have decided to go on a dating marathon so to speak. Even though I like casual, I knew deep down it wouldn’t end where I wanted it to, so I have continued on my little quest to find a guy.
Date Number 1. Monday = L
It may not be the done thing, Or it may be the case as I have done it a few times now throughout my life, When things haven’t been going the way I have hoped, I’ve always somehow managed to get back in contact with an ex. My last real boyfriend ended because he didnt have much about him, I bossed him around and I totally overtook his personality, He was a complete mummy’s boy and had a dead end job, so over the year and a half of being with him, I made slight adjustments, clothes, new job, better prospectives, but at the sametime as I said I wore him down and ended up feeling like a bitch so I ended it. Anyway! Over the last month and a half we have been talking again, and for the last 3 weeks we have been out on a date a week, and they have actually been really fun. So I’m seeing him today, we are going Christmas shopping.
Date Number 2 . Tuesday = J
I have been talking to this guy who lives in a village not far from me from POF. We have only been talking for 2 weeks, but I’ve found if you leave it too long then usually its not going to happen. So we are going to meet in a pub we both know tomorrow evening. Im not that nervous, Kate actually knows him, said he was a bit of a tool when she knew him but that was a long time ago so who knows.
Date Numer 3. Wednesday = R or M
I still haven’t finalised plans with these guys but it will be one of them. They are both also from POF. R is an Essex boy, not usually my type but he looks and sounds sweet, maybe too eager but we shall see! M is more of a manly guy, he has his own business, is the outdoors type and also seems really nice. If I don’t see him Wednesday then he will be date number 7/Sunday.
Date Number 4. Thursday/Friday = Girl Date! I’m going home to see the bestie!
Ok, so its not a guy date but it is a date, im more excited about this than any other the others, I haven’t seen my home bestie since the beginning of September! I am rattling like a crazed crack fiend!
Date number 5. Friday = Girl Date with Kate!
I know i am seeing her this weekend, and I really want it to be on Friday so I’m not hung over with possible date number 7 on Sunday.
There is also R2 a professional guy from London, I’ve spoken to him most days for the last week on the phone, he’s a business accountant or something, so going to try and fit him in too!